Living beyond limits

People are the worst. I hate selfish people who are conceited to not realize their own actions, thoughts and choice of words. The ones who are uneducated to an extent can be selfish and so conceited in that way. However, educated people can be selfish as well.

What solves dilemmas? People who are living in confusion can change. Friends of those people could help provide that type of change by offering suggestions and giving emphasis upon each personal issue the person ought to work on. When at least that person understands his or her own problem, then the process of living in between limits start. The ideal is to shape a person's mind to think many ways rather being a close minded person.

Learning how to think openly and in many scrupulous ways can be simple. The process consists of hard work, though. A person wouldn't have to only take action; a person would have to force one self to intellect and identify his/her own problem in order to see effective and positive results. The results are usually better in the end if the person takes heed of instructions, thoroughly.

Living is not about having life the way a person expects. There are processes and stages that people go through in order to make life the way they anticipate and envision. Hard work is not the only part of living, being involved in learning one self is a main focus. Loving, caring and supporting oneself and others are the ways to start in building a bridge to create a world beyond limits such as being open to other people and creating a type of happiness.

Healing

How do people escape pain? When a person rides and drives shame or misery into another person's life, that's when pain erupts. Bearing such burdens on another's shoulders can drive a person insane.

Insanity can either shape a person negatively or positively. That person have to decide whether to deal with it or not. The people who tend to fight through pain heals over a period of time. However, the ones who let pain break them will be hindered and devoured. Pain takes time to heal. The decision is left with that person.

For instance, a wife who has been beaten so many times by her husband will either take that hurt and try to build from such matter or she can choose to let the pain make her weak. Depending on the circumstance she can only decide what she need to do in order for her to heal overtime. If she leaves her husband, then maybe she would be less abused, physically. But, the truth of the matter is if she is going to be safe alone or be safe with him.

The healing process is determined by the victim's decisions in whatever the situation could be. The fight through a hectic life could be hard, but a person could come out better than what they had once been.

Choices lie in the minds of people. People need to be aware of themselves. When a person realizes one's ability and traits, then the person could start healing. Life is love, love is good and healing is great when a person seeks for a solution.

Forgiveness

Why do we forgive? Do we forgive when forgotten? Most humans have no grunge against a person if that individual doesn't do anything wrong. The only time a person doesn't forgive is when he/ she is treated badly by somebody else.

Do we forgive then and there or whenever we feel to? For a person who believes forgiveness comes easy, then that person will forgive quick. However, a person who thinks forgiveness is hard takes time to think about the problem and such solution from what is composed. Usually, the healing scar process is slow.

In the end our fatal concern is forgiveness or not? For a person who can't forgive will be drowned in the state of being lost. On the other hand, the person will be able to do better and think ahead for living life.

God is good. He wants us to expect big.

Love endures

Love is a word that comes and go, as people would say; but, to me love always exists. My love for people is strong. Through pain, tears, joy and peace love lives in me. There are going to be days where love might not be found, but I believe love still lives in me elsewhere, externally by my actions and not by what or how I feel.

We all need love. Never failing, ending , or perishing love. The type of love making darkness to light, the wrong stand for right, and a transformation from hatred to caring and supporting. That's kindness. That's forgivness and that's the kind of merciful love Jesus Christ died for.

There is more to live for, so a person should love God, others and also thyself. Close to the end of a person's journey if love is invested, then that person will benefit with great gifts from life and will be given everlasting life and love.  

We all need love.

P.S. Love,

Malcolm Phipps